The following messages of condolence and symbols
have been added in memory of Puvaneswary.

My Grandmother was an incredible woman, in and out. I was her first grandchild, and she loved me so dearly. I also truly loved her back, and was very fond of her, even at a young age. I spent most of my life with her, and was in close contact with her. She taught me many things, including to be brave, modest and kind. The thing I liked most about her was her positivity and optimism. She could always see the bright light even in the most darkest of days and times. I will always remember her for this. She was also the most kind hearted person I have ever met in my life as well. She truly was a one of a kind person. She was also a very helpful person, and I would say she lived her life in service to other people. She was very attuned to other people’s emotions and would help out whenever she could. She truly had an amazing personality, and people were very much attracted to her. She truly is a one of a kind person and will be very much remembered.

I have many beautiful memories; I would like share few of them. Peri Aunty, you and your family stayed with us when thamby was bone. At that time, you made a beautiful white embroidery blouse and a long skirt for me. I still remember that you took the time to make embroidery for me. That dress was my favorite one. Many decades passed but still have that beautiful memory. My amma told me, you always make dresses for her too. You are a talented person.

I love your fish curry with rice. You always ask me “Sarah amma can I give you a little amount of rice (sottu soru) with fish? When, I visited to your home.

During the war time, we were afraid to sleep alone at our home. My amma always tell; let’s go to chinna-accka’s home. We always had a place to go to.

You are sleeping in death now. We are waiting to see you soon, when our God fulfill his promise. Isaiah 26.19

Tribute to my sister

I can still remember the days we were living at Mount Lavinia. PeriAunty and Alex uncle were very kind to us. We cannot forget both of them. She was very jovial. Always she was with a smiling face. Our son Timothy also loved her so much and always insisted to visit their home to play with the aunty when he was small. When she was in New Zealand and Australia, she used to call us and speak to me very often. Whenever she visited Sri Lanka, she stayed with us and she insisted that I should accompany her to meet other relatives. We will be missing her a lot. Our condolences to her children who looked after her with great care during her old age. Let her rest in peace

She was such a nice aunty to me as I used to visit her home when they were in Jaffna and Colombo. Whenever I go to her home during night, she would insist that I should eat something. She was the best cook in our family. Whatever she cooked was so delicious and I always talk about it to my relatives. Not only me, she loved all her nephews and nieces very much. She helps any body in need without expecting any help. That was her special quality. I can still remember her and the uncle (her husband late Mr. Alexander) agreed to give food to one of our old relatives for a long time whose only son had deserted him and was missing for a long time in late 70’s. Even my mother wondered as to how she agreed to take such a big responsibility on her shoulder. A very hardworking lady who was working tirelessly in the kitchen as well as in their small coconut estate as the income of her husband (a Government Servant- Administrative officer, Assistant Government Agent) was not enough for the expenses of a big family specially for education of her children during 70’s and 80’s. Her efforts bore fruits. I know that she loved her five children and her sons-in laws and daughters-in laws very much. She helped to raise her grand children also. Her son- in- law Dr.Jesudas always tells me about her dedication in looking after his children.
For any person there is definitely a birth and a death. People grow old and die one day. That is nature. We cannot expect her to live forever. When bad people die we don’t feel anything, but when such good people die, people would feel sorrow. I saw that in the face of her children and friends at the funeral. As Christians we believe that we can meet our loved again one day. Till then let her rest in peace. She will definitely live in the hearts of all of us till we live in this world.

Dear Family,

As I reflect on the beautiful service today, I am reminded of the profound impact PeriyaAunty had on all of our lives. Her gentle spirit and unwavering love will continue to inspire us. Though words cannot fully capture the depth of loss we all feel, please know that her memory will forever be cherished.

In her honor, I promise to carry forward the values and love she embodied so gracefully. May we all find peace in the legacy she leaves behind.

With deepest respect and sympathy,

Dayana

Dear Family,
Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this moment. Yes you have missed your loving mother. I can’t forget Puwane’s lovely smiling face. Though we lost contact, she remains in our hearts. May she sleep and wake up with that bright smile in paradise. We pray Jehovah’s undeserved kindness be with you all at this sorrowful time.

Dear Charles, Acca, Anna, Thankachi, Thambi and Family,
I am deeply saddened by the news of Amma's passing. She was more than a mother to me; she was a guiding light and a source of unwavering warmth. Her kindness and generosity left an indelible mark on my heart. I remember the countless times I spent at your home during our high school years, where Amma's delicious meals, hearty laughter, and genuine love made me feel like part of the family.

Though distance kept me from being there in person, my thoughts and memories are always with you. Amma's spirit will forever live on in the joy she spread and the love she shared with everyone. Her legacy of kindness and care is something I will always cherish.

May God grant her eternal peace and keep her in a place of comfort. My heart aches for your loss, but I find solace in the memories we all hold dear. Amma will always be remembered fondly, and her love will continue to shine through all who knew her. " You are a Beautiful women Amma"

With deepest sympathy and heartfelt love,
Your Favorite Son
Jeya (Manipay) (From Canada).

A wonderful service to a special person in our hearts! Periaunty, you will always be remembered for your kind and loving nature. Rest in peace!

My Condolences & Sympathies for my cousins& families,,God be with you for the comfort and strength to deal with the loss/ Difficult time,,
Periyanty was very hardworking & Dedicated to raise her children and her family,,I remember she was always on the move and and very active,,
Rest in Peace Periyanty
Guna Ponnampalam
Toronto,,
Canada

Gammy, we will always keep you close to our hearts and remember the awesome person you were. With an infectious smile that would spread across the room (like in the photo), your positivity and optimism really were a joy to be around. I'm so glad I got a chance to see you again, to hold you hand and speak to you.

Love you always.

We think about you always,
we talk about you still.
You have never been forgotten,
and you never will.
We hold you close within our hearts, and there you will remain.
To walk and guide us through our lives, until we meet again.
You are resting now. Our loving father Jehovah and his son Jesus will be waiting to bring you back soon.

You were such a strong woman and you will be remembered by us and your friends forever

You will be always in our hearts my dear Amma . I love you so much .You had been a wonderful mother to me . I am very grateful that you raised me with good values. Thank you my sweet amma.

I remember aunty as such a lovely person who always shows great hospitality.
I had the privilege of knowing her when I was very young and staying at aunty” home, very caring and loving.
Hope to see her very soon in the paradise.
Deepest sympathies to the entire family.

Dear Charles and family
It is very saddened to hear about your mom's loss. We will pray for your mom. Also our prayers our prayers are with you and your family.
Sutha
Canada

With friendship and love, we’re thinking of you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences 🙏

She had such a warm and happy presence, and she was so generous to everyone without expecting anything in return. We will miss her so much.

I still remember when I was small she says that Mark on her face when get riped she will cut it and give it to me.
Such a nice person. Always smiling and welcoming everyone. I have lots of loving memories with her when I was in Annaicoddai. She used to make oil with coconut with Karuna mama she will give a white thing from the oil for us to eat.
Last month Anna send a photo of Periyaunty with Sathy Mama then I asked amma whether she can pass your number for me to talked with her. But unfortunately I missed that opportunity.
Please do share with me the live stream link.
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