The following messages of condolence and symbols
have been added in memory of Andy.

Written 26th April 2019
The Day You Went Away – Three Years On

Andy I’m sitting here looking out the window thinking of you and the life we shared, and how happy we were just being us. It’s hard to imagine three years have gone since we last talked, held hands, smiled at each other, laughed together, and I held you in my arms. ‘You & Me’ we were going to take on the world together, and write another chapter more amazing than the last – everyone has a story, but ours was a ‘Big One’ Andy, and it breaks my heart that life with you was cut short. I loved that we always turned the page together, chose our own destiny, and had fun figuring it out. The day you went away the world did lose its colour for me, and knowing I now have to travel through life without you, is sad; it’s a road I never expected to travel alone, and I know won’t be an easy journey, or the same without you…

Losing you Andy, changed me – it broke my heart, and it broke me.

Grief, I’ve come to know, is something you get up and live with every day – it’s a long and lonesome journey, and still challenges me to this day…

Nothing in life prepared me for losing you Andy… nothing, and trying to navigate the emotions, the thoughts, the pain, the sadness, the emptiness, the loneliness, the fear of forgetting – your voice, a memory, a moment, the fear of not knowing where you’re going or how to get there, the not knowing how to be present in life again when your heart hurts all the time, will the sadness ever end, and I don’t know how long that will take me, to work through that. I’m always looking over my shoulder wishing I could have back the life that was “You & Me”, but I’m also looking over my shoulder remembering the journey we had, and all the amazing memories we made together.

Those moments that remind me of you Andy, and of us, that trigger those emotions, or memories, and bring home thoughts of where we’d be today – make me miss you even more…

Thank you for…

Asking me to be your girlfriend, and then to marry you – I’ve never looked back

Loving me endlessly – it showed in all you did for me

Being your unique true self – there are so many amazing qualities I loved about you, and was proud of the person you were…

The fun & laughter – you had an awesome sense of humour, and I so miss that cheeky smile

The challenging times – they are part of our journey too, and made us even stronger

Sharing in my life – life’s journey was all the better for you being in it

The memories – boy we made plenty, and had fun doing it

Always watching over me - making me feel safe, and happy in yours arms

The beautiful letters, cards & flowers – that you spoilt me with often (the ultimate romantic)

Taking the time to understand me – you understood me better than I understood myself

Never giving up on me & encouraging me when I doubted myself

Showing me what true strength & courage was – “Thumbs Up” I’m alright you’d always say

Accepting me for me – with all my flaws, even laughing at my silly ways

Being my husband, but also my best friend & showing me true deep love conquers all…

The road to the future is unknown, and it does scare me not having you here beside me, and at times I do feel like I’m just floating out there, in the middle of a lake, not knowing how to get back to shore, or whether to head North, South, East or West. The fun in life was navigating those waters with you – with you beside me I felt we could navigate the stormiest of waters, and always make it back to shore.

My wish for myself Andy, is to be able to open my heart up to life again, and I know in time I will. I know you would say to me, there are only so many tomorrows, so “turn that corner, head on down that highway, a new road awaits, and even if you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there & don’t look back”.

I promised you I’d be ok, and I will – my strength will come from you, and my promise – you showed me how to be resilient, to never give up, and to keep showing up no matter how many times it knocks you down, or how painful, or how difficult…

What this past three years has taught me, is, when what matters most in the world to you is stripped away, when the tragedy that you thought could never happen to you, happens – you will survive, you will breath in and out, you will cry most days, but you will also laugh with your family and friends, you will work, and one day I believe dream. As lost as my heart is Andy I know I need to let life in, to find that magic in life again that we had together, and I know finding that is going to be bittersweet…. I miss you most of all, but I miss me too – the old me, the smiling me, and the person I was when I was with you.

One day I hope I will turn the page, and whatever that new chapter brings – in time, maybe I’ll be able to fill those pages, always remembering the story that was ‘You & Me’ – we wrote a hell of a chapter Andy… It doesn’t mean I still won’t have tough days, and tough moments, because I will… I’m always going to feel the pain of losing you, but I would rather have that pain no matter what it costs me, knowing we lived and loved, and shared a life worth remembering... ‘You & Me’ have memories longer than the road that stretches out ahead – timeless and infinite.

Do you remember when we replaced my engagement ring that was taken, and you took me to the same place you bought my first engagement ring 30 years earlier, and told me to pick whichever one I liked – the one I chose, which was beautiful, I chose because it had the best meaning – it was a trilogy ring, which meant ‘Past, Present, & Future’, and it couldn’t have been more perfect, along with that moment – I found a love that will always have a place in my heart, that no one else could have.

When they say grief is the price we pay for deep, wonderful love, and it may never fully go away – I know that because the love I have for you Andy doesn’t have an expiration date, and I feel your loss every day.

This photo, from 16th May 2015, is another that means everything to me, it was taken at Ayres Rock, which was always going to be our final destination, and the doorway to heading home… a “Mega” ending to our “Big Lap” around Australia – we had the most amazing time visiting the rock, and were happy to be heading home to start our next chapter… sadly our world came crashing down around us, and we tried as best we could to never let it break our spirit, to stay positive, as unscheduled as cancer was… I was so very proud of you Andy, of how stoic you were with all you endured, together with your strength and resilience, which was not only amazing for me to see, but I know the Doctors all said the same, and that is something I’ll never forget…

If you had a day you were going to have that day, and you never gave up on tomorrow…

P.S. I hope you don’t mind if I love you forever Andy

P.P.S. I Love You

Always on my Mind, Forever in my Heart - My Hero - I Miss You...

Written 26th April 2018

The Day You Went Away – Two Years On

It’s the two-year mark, and still only feels like yesterday, but at the same time – every day, week, month that goes by I feel so much further away from the life we had, and that scares me.

Grief has had a way of challenging me every corner I turn Andy and will maybe stay with me as long as my love does – forever.

The pain and the tears have softened a little, but I still wake up every day with an emptiness and loneliness in my heart, not having you here beside me. At times that pain is unimaginable.

Year one Andy was a struggle for me, that left me with a numbness, and a deep yearning to want to turn back the hands of time, to happier days; year two has been a struggle to learn to live again, tackling the loss of the life we shared together and the realisation that I can no longer have you share in my life, has been heart-wrenching.

I know I have to find a way to exist as Helen, not Helen ‘n’ Andy. Life continues, and maybe I’m still standing still – wrapping my arms around the life we had so hard that I can’t embrace the future, but I hope by taking small steps forward I will find a new purpose, a new normal, and build on that happy place again. It’s the strength I draw from you, that helps me take those steps. I never forgot a saying you once said to me “Don’t ever look back, we are where we are today, we just have to keep looking forward”.

Writing this next chapter is scary and frightening, as it’s not the chapter I hoped to ever write, but whatever it may be, and wherever the road takes me – I hope you’ll be proud of me.

Missing you, it hurts, so I’ve written down the little things that I miss and remind me of you…

I Miss… Loving you, and you loving me

Hearing you say “I love you baby”

Hearing your voice

Sitting out the back on a Friday night talking about our week, and realising we’ll have to order in pizza, as we forgot the time

Your cheeky smile

Your sense of humour

The way you always made - birthdays, anniversaries & Christmas – special times

You laughing at my silly ways

Your hand on my waist as we sleep

Your car being in the driveway when I come home

Being on that road trip of life with you

You telling me off (yes, the challenges I miss too)

The arguments that never lasted past a day

Your encouragement and support

Your hugs

Buying me flowers

The fact you understood me more than I think I did

Working on projects together (we would have been entertaining on a renovating show)

Your cooking

You leaving your stuff everywhere, me tidying up after you, and then you not being able to find anything

Being able to care for you

Being a witness to each other’s lives – good times, bad times, sickness & health

Feeling safe, and happy in your arms

Enjoying the company of friends and family together

Writing another chapter in the ‘Story of Us’

Exploring and travelling the world together with our best friends

Just sitting there being happy in each other’s presence

Cruising down the highway on your motorbike – not a care in the world

Making more memories

Our adventures – one that was truly memorable was our road trip around OZ – just you, me, and our faithful dogs Doogle ‘n’ Jack

& most of all just being with you…

This past few days, and the days before I’ve been spending time reading your love letters from the early days, and the cards you wrote, and most of all looking over our photographs and remembering the stories behind each and every one. The say “Photographs are like windows of our life that show our journeys so far they make us laugh, cry & smile – and are the album of our lives”.

I’d love to have back those happy hours that belonged to us, but always know they will forever hold a special place in my heart; nothing could ever extinguish the flame I carry for you Andy.

When I think about love, you are right beside me

I think about us, and you’ll always find me

When my heart is lost, I know you will guide me

“You gave me a life worth remembering”

This photo, from 25th May 2015, that I have attached to this story, is one I hold close to my heart, and a moment that will stay with me always – it was the last morning of our trip around Australia when you caught me by surprise with this amazing hug, and said I wouldn’t have done this trip with anyone else but you – ditto..!!

I’ll never forget Anzac Day 2016 when you said to me “I’ll be alright sweetheart” – you were always selfless in all you did even facing your hardest of days and own mortality. You showed courage and strength beyond what I believed possible – you were, and always will be the best part of me - my hero.

Written 26th April 2017

The Day You Went Away – One Year On

A year has passed since the day you went away – the day we lost each other, the day the story of us ended as we knew it.

I wonder often where we’d be today – team Helen & Andy – still on that road trip of life (speed bumps, detours & new horizons) looking forward to another 30 years wherever the road took us; wish I was writing another chapter.

I imagine you “on the road again” just a different highway watching over us – my Angel.

I’ll never forget Anzac Day last year when you said to me “I’ll be alright sweetheart” – you were always selfless in all you did even facing your hardest of days and own mortality. You showed courage and strength beyond what I believed possible – you were, and always will be the best part of me.

We had a love to conquer all – it was a “Big One” Andy – many years from now I know I’ll still be so in love with you, and miss you, just like I do today.

How lucky I was that you walked into my life, and the fact our journey took us 36 years was a testament to that love – we wrote our own love story – team Helen & Andy doing everything as one together.

You fought for yourself, and for us, as life mattered.

You were the reason I loved my life – I would have been happy spending the rest of my days with you.

You wrote something in a card once that said “everyday was the beginning of the rest of our life together” – that’s what I miss the most the story of us. The good times, the challenges, the surprises, hugs & laughs, and especially that smile – team you & me.

Words could never express, and time will never erase the love I hold in my heart for you – to love and be loved is everything – you gave me that and so much more – you were the best part of my world.

My heart will be your keeper today, tomorrow, and always. Hanging out with you was my favourite thing to do.

I wish I could just close my eyes and pick you from my dreams, and be back in happier times.

When I look at all our photos, and think of what we did – boy we had some adventures. We did take on everything as one together, and I’m sorry your still not here beside me today.

With you – everything was right, life was right – I found my love of a lifetime, and my best friend.

Every day I try to face life without you the only way I know how, which is one step at a time in what I call a thousand mile journey – the emptiness and unhappiness is overwhelming, but however long that takes me I know you will be watching over me every step of the way – my Angel Andy.

I promised you I’d be ok, and I will Andy – my strength will come from you and my promise.

“It’s not the years in your life, but the life in your years” – you made the most of yours you lived every day as if it was your last. I Love You HMAA

Written May 2016
Hey Andy, there are so many words that i want to say about you and what you mean to me, definitely not ready to do this today as your life was taken away from us all too early. I have never met a man in this whole world that has a character and amazing qualities in life like yourself, you are truly one of a kind. You've always been there for me, even in the crazy times, not just as a brother-in-law but as a true friend. You have given not just myself but my boys, Kane, Shea and Coen, very wonderful times and have shared that ride of your life with us all, leaving memories that we will cherish within our hearts forever, they say you're the best uncle they have ever had and will now be sadly missed.

We all know why we are here today in that Andy has been a part of our lives in one way or another and given us all that special something to remember him by, if you were a part of Andy's life then you would also have been a part of his incredibly, amazing, beautiful, love of his life, his partner, his world, his wife Helen Marie he loved her endlessly. Who we have all grown to know and love as Faireyland the Helen and Andy team.

At times i would rock up to visit Andy, i went hey Andy and he would say hey Glenda, a lot of heys in our conversation, come in as he was usually in the kitchen or behind his bar, as i entered it was like wow Andy what's the big occasion, as i would first notice a beautiful bunch of flowers, Andy replied nothing Glenda, Helen had a sxxx of a week, right then i knew Andy would of finished work early, tidied the house, prepared a special dinner and placed the flowers perfectly so when Helen came home and entered the house she knew home was where the heart is, which shows the type of loving, generous, caring husband he was. Their hearts have been together since they first met and I'm so grateful that he married my sister Helen, two beautiful souls joining as one and making their lives complete.

I know you are with us today Andy and would still want the best for Helen, with that I'm sure your spirit and life will now live on within us all. When Andy needed everyone to know that he was okay, he would give the good ole thumbs up, i feel it only fitting that we now give Andy back the good ole thumbs up, to enable Andy to rest in peace knowing the love of his life, his everything, will be ok as we will all be there for Helen whenever she may need us to get through this difficult time and never walk alone. To Andy (thumbs up).

"A MEMORY IS A LIFE PAST, NO-ONE CAN TAKE FROM YOU, FOREVER IT LASTS"

Thank you Andy for being a part of our lives and for being that special person you were true to yourself and everyone else and for just being Andy, shine brightly for us all.

Forever within our hearts Glenda and the Boys
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Written April 2016
I miss you already…

If it’s possible to love someone more every day, then Andy you will always be loved…
Marrying you was the best thing that ever happened to me, you were my best friend… my happiness…
We took on everything together, through better or worse, and gave our all as one “You & Me”

When we got married there was a little verse, you probably don’t remember, that said…
Even if it takes only a minute to tell you “I love you”,
It will take me a long and wonderful time to show you.
And that we did…

In our 36 years together, wherever we went, whatever we did, or wherever the road took us – we made it unforgettable… hanging out with you was my favourite thing to do… our life was amazing, so full of adventure…

There is so much that reminds me of you, and I think how lucky I was to have been going through life with you… we were the best of teams and could conquer anything together… every day we turned the page, chose our own destiny, and all the good things we made better together…

We loved like there was no tomorrow… enjoying each other and life in every way possible…
Always you called me your beautiful girl
You spoilt me with flowers
Protected me from harm
Laughed at my silly ways
Inspired me
Made me feel good when I was down
And, we’d talk for hours – there was never a quiet moment (especially for you Andy)
But, no matter how bad our day or how crazy, home was everything to us - we could always come home close the door and nothing else mattered
We knew how to forgive and say we were sorry before the days end
And, the best part of my day was waking up to find you by my side
Thank you for sharing in the good times, the challenges, the surprises, the smiles, hugs & laughs in all our years together – I wouldn’t change a thing you were my rock, my world.

To even begin to count the many things I loved about you would be impossible, or tell you all the reasons I just couldn’t live without you, but know that many years from now come what may; I’ll still be so in love with you, just like I am today…

You were taken too soon; the past 10 months of your journey you stood strong showing strength and courage beyond, you made me who I am today a better person, and taught me what true strength was; to be positive, to fight with unwavering will and determination, to never ever give up; you lived for today and hoped for tomorrow, and nothing ever broke your spirit.

You always told me “to keep my boxing gloves on” “I’m alright you’d say”. You were stoic in that you never complained always giving your all no matter how bumpy the road got, and nothing was more important than if you had a day, you were going to have that day, and every day was a good day even if that meant just being here with me…

The fact you thanked me each and every day for caring for you, showed the person you were; all the time wondering if it was ever too much, but if ever I could tell again, my caring for you was only ever a labour of love…

Cancer taught us to LIVE our life, not just exist. That every minute, every hour, and every moment of every day counts… we learnt life can be imperfect, but it’s what you make of it…

Life gave us memories, memories gave us life…

So, when the sun sets we will remember the good times, and when the sun rises we will smile as a new day has begun.

And,
I will celebrate your life Andy, and live every day for today just as you did; knowing you’ll be right there beside me.

To our next adventure
Your Angel Helen…

May 03, 2016
FAIREY (Andrew): My uncle one of the best uncles ever. I will always remember the good times we had, i will forever love and miss you, and to my Aunty Helen i love you always and am here for u anytime. Andy was an amazing person and he loved u so much...
Love always your niece Sam.

May 03, 2016
FAIREY (Andrew ): To Helen and Family. Our thoughts are with you all at this sad time.
All the Staff Hoist Sales and Hydraulic Repairs.

May 03, 2016
FAIREY (Andrew): So proud of Andy, his courage and attitude to life. He kept on smiling and treasured every day he spent with Helen. They share a special love. Andy will always have a place in our hearts.
Aunty Lynne, William and Oscar xxx.

May 02, 2016
FAIREY (Andrew ): That warm and cheeky smile will never be forgotten. It would light up any room. Heaven now has one extra bright star. Much love to your partner in crime Helen and all the family. Meegs, Mike, Chella and Ads.

SMS May 1st, 2016 17:43
Hi Helen its Jayde, Jo’s daughter. I just wanted to message you to let you know how much we are thinking of you during this terribly hard time. My heart breaks to even imagine what you are going through. Andy is such an amazing guy and you are amazing too! I often have referred to you and Andy as the perfect fun loving couple with so many common grounds that it almost seemed you worked as 1 person. This is so admirable and I will strive to have the respect, friendship, carefree fun and laughter that you guys beamed, in my life too. Sending you all our love and strength. Love Always

SMS May 11th, 2016
I’ve known Andrew since I was 13. He’s always been a man among men I’ve had the privilege of being his friend. My deepest sympathy to you Helen. He was a fantastic person, and yes a hero. Ray (Jeakes) x

April 30, 2016
FAIREY (Andrew ): Andy you were the brother I never had and great mate. You fought so hard to spend every day with Helen, you were so courageous. You will be forever in our hearts and never forgotten.
Love David, Niki, Taylor, Thomas and Cooper

April 29, 2016
FAIREY (Andy): Some people make a difference just by being who they are; Andy made this world a brighter and better place. Special times reminded me how lucky I was to have been going through life with Andy. We took on everything as one together and gave our all; he fought with such courage and strength… my hero. I miss him already. He will be in my heart and thoughts every day; we loved like there was no tomorrow and my time with Andy was unforgettable. The heart is never ready and the time is never right to say goodbye – it hurts so much.

“Life is not measured by the breathes we take, but by the moments that take our breath away”

Andy and I always believed the most important thing was to enjoy life – to be happy – it’s all that matters.

Until our next adventure, your Angel, Helen.

EMAIL April 28th, 2016 14:27
You know Helen, we sat in the shed last night, the boys and myself, had a drink for both you and Andy, and looked around at all the stuff you guys have in there, golf clubs, bowling ball, canoe, etc and Andy’s trophies for darts, indoor cricket & golf, and then there’s the boat & the camper, and your bike trips o/seas, and all the other stuff you guys got up to. I thought, he sure gave it a good go, and had a lot of fun doing so, and in the process made your world a better place, as you did his. You’ve been lucky to have someone like that in your life, and he has every right to be your hero. Be proud of yourself to.
If there is anything we can do to help, just let us know.
Darryl, Thomas, Patrick, & Andrew.
The guys at Transeals send their love.
Life gives us memories, Memories gives us life, Cherish both.

EMAIL May 2nd, 2016 09:39
Helen,
So sorry to hear about Andy, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Regards Jim (Murray)

EMAIL May 4th, 2016 12:35
Hi Helen we were so saddened by the news of Andy's illness and passing. Sorry we were unable to attend the funeral as we are currently on holiday overseas. Our thoughts and hearts are with you now. Deepest sympathy Kim and Coralie (Simpson)

EMAIL May 6th, 2016 22:09
Hi Helen,
I can’t imagine what you are going through. I am so sorry for your loss. You both had the love that everyone would dream of. I pray each day gets that little bit easier for you.
I was so glad that I could be there on the day and if there is anything I can do for you in the future please let me know.
Thinking of you xxxx
Love Sharls

EMAIL May 13th, 2016 16:23
Dear Helen,
My condolence to you. Sorry to hear of Andy’s passing.
Thank you for your email, I’m sure Andy would have felt honoured if he read this email.
All the best wishes, and please don’t hesitate to call or email if you need anything.
Regards, Colin Tang (Radiation Oncologist)

EMAIL May 13th, 2016 16:23
Dear Helen,
I am very sorry to hear that Andrew has passed away. Even after so many years of being a neurosurgeon, it is news that I always have difficulty dealing with. A part of me is always lost. No doubt, your grief is one hundred, perhaps a thousand times more than what I experience. Andrew's smile and positive spirit, together with your strength and resilience, have been amazing for me to see. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Gabriel Lee (Neurologist)

(Helen’s email sent to Prof Gabriel Lee, Dr Colin Tang & Dr Siobhan)
It is with much sorrow and unhappiness I send this message...

Andy sadly passed away 26th April at home, I was by his side; we had 36 amazing years together; having Andy home was both our wishes (home is where the heart is), and his last few days he was surrounded by family and friends.

We had a very beautiful and emotional farewell – so many came to honour and celebrate Andy’s life – he was one of those people who made a difference...

I would like to sincerely thank all of you; your professionalism shown and given, with respect, care, and such empathy was second to none; your commitment to what you do, which helps so many; doctors with heart. Andy & I always felt so comfortable with all of you.

I was so proud of Andy, he fought with such courage and strength right throughout his illness – taught me how to stand strong, inspired others, and made me a better person ... he was stoic in that he never complained ...

No matter how limited he always found enjoyment in the smallest of things, and just spending his days with me...

Cancer we found was so unforgiving...

We always tried to take it one small step at a time, to stay positive, and fight it best we could. We called it an “unscheduled journey” – cancer didn’t always follow a straight path, but when the road got bumpy we just remembered we had a wonderful pit crew behind us to give us a little roadside assistance; the support was overwhelming from family, friends, and doctors. It never broke our spirit ... we lived for today and always hoped for tomorrow.

“Cancer taught us to live our lives, not just exist. Every minute, every hour, and every moment of every day counts. We learnt life can be imperfect but it is what you make of it.”

Andy meant the world to me and we always looked forward to every day as a good day, and never ever gave up on the dream that one day we were going to be back on that road trip of life!

There was a Nickelback song we played at his farewell “If today was your last day”, that song summed up Andy – life was worth fighting for ... if he had a day he was going to have that day!

My heart is lost, but I’m reminded every day of how lucky I was to have been going through life with Andy. Hanging out with Andy was my favourite thing to do.

Thank you all again for always trying to do the best you could for us ... we all tried ... miss Andy already...

Take Care
Thank You
Kindest Regards,
Helen Fairey

SMS April 28th, 2016 08:26
Molly, I don’t get teary very often, but I’m sitting here at my desk that way now when I was down your smile and laugh would always get me back up. I was gutted when I heard about Andy, but at least now his pain is gone, but I hope I can be there for you like you have been for me over the years. Looking forward to our next big cuddle. Hang in there Cookie (Transeals) xxxxx

SMS April 28th, 2016 08:26
Helen, I am so sorry and saddened to hear about Andy. No words can describe how we are all shocked by this and grieve his passing. All of us in Sydney are saddened on his passing. My condolences, Andrew (NG) (Hallite)

SMS April 28th, 2016 08:30
Thanks Melon it was a privilege to have known Andy. Willy (Michael Williamson)

SMS April 28th, 2016 08:43
Love you, always here if you need someone to talk to Mitch (Nephew)

SMS April 28th, 2016 08:47
I will never forget Uncle Andy he will always be in my thoughts. I have a lot of memories with Uncle Andy I will cherish them for a very long time, I’m so proud to call him my Uncle. He fought so hard until the end and we are all devastated and lost without Uncle Andy, but always know Auntie Helen that we are all here for you no matter what! Love you Matthew (Nephew) xo

SMS April 28th, 2016 09:37
Dear Helen. As you wake each day without your beautiful Andy we hope sometime in the future the pain is not as great as we know your feeling now. Your story has always been as one Helen an Andy as you say an amazing team. We will treasure the Helen an Andy friendship and continue to treasure the Helen friendship. Your strength over the past 11 months has been inspirational. All our luv Sue an Mick (Wardies)

SMS April 28th, 2016 09:40
Bless you Helen… I’ve done nothing, but think about you… my heart really goes out to you… you and Andy were one and I can’t even imagine how painful it is… I’ll always remember his laugh… it was a Andy laugh… we will miss Andy so so so so much… times like this we need to be there for one another… you are definitely family to me and Eric and always will be… we love you dearly Helen and will always be there for you… Michelle (Pearce) xxoo

SMS April 28th, 2016 09:47
Andy was a true gentleman, one of a kind, a great mate, and is greatly missed and will be in our thoughts forever as you are to Helen. Take care and soldier on. Love Wayne & Cherryl (Whisler) xx

SMS April 28th, 2016 11:53
Hi Helen. What a lovely message. Sorry I haven’t text before now. To be honest I didn’t know what to say. It’s so heartbreaking… I can’t imagine how you are feeling you must be devastated. We are in Cairns at the moment, but hoping to be at Andy’s funeral. I’m sure you know if you need anything please ask. Thinking of you at this terrible time. The Scotties xxxxxxxx (The love you have for Andy is endless. My Dad used to say God makes them and God pairs them.)

SMS April 28th, 2016 12:16
Big love to you Helen! It gladdens me so much to hear you have had such a beautiful life with him – because you are both beautiful people xoxo you inspire me to live my best life Bianca (Hewitt)

SMS April 28th, 2016 14:02
Dearest Helly, my love and thoughts are with you every day. Just want to give you the biggest hug and tell you it’s going to be ok. The love you and Andy shared together is one to be admired by all who knew you. Will see you real soon my dear friend. Maree (Brown) xxoxx

SMS April 28th, 2016 18:51
You are a beautiful person and you don’t deserve this, and neither did Andy. I just want to give you a big hug. Please take care of yourself. I know it’s hard, but don’t feel like you have to be strong though. Lean on all of your family and friends, because we all love you and we’re here to support you. Love Marita (Bird) xxxx

SMS April 29th, 2016 09:25
We miss Andy too. I thank god for his life and the joy he bought to us all. Colin was saying how Andy was like a big brother and his best mate for so many years. Colin remembers following him around at the railways while the other blokes gave him crap… but he didn’t care. I guess he knew Andy was something special… someone to be treasured for all time. Jo (Gotch) xoxo

SMS April 29th, 2016 11:10
Head up Hel love ya Aaron (Nephew) x

SMS April 29th, 2016 12:13
So, so true Helen. You and Andy had something very special, an inspiration to others. With love and hugs Debbie (Peet) xxxx

SMS April 30th, 2016 09:04
Hey Helen its Shea. It was so devastating to hear the bad news. Uncle Andy will forever be in our hearts and memories and will always be missed. Stay strong Auntie Helen Love Shea (Nephew)

SMS April 30th, 2016 20:44
Hi Helen, my thoughts have been with you today and every day, sending you lots of love and strength at this very difficult time. We will always be here for you Cherryl (Whisler) xxoo

SMS April 26th, 2016 07:17
(8 Love Hearts) Julz

SMS April 26th, 2016 09:43
Dear Helen, thinking of you especially today. Stay strong sis. Love Steve, Michelle & Matthew (Gaunt)

SMS April 26th, 2016 10:25
Hey Hels, thinking of you love you so much. Boys at work wait until they get home to let them know big hugs from all of us talk to you soon. Leanne (Sister) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 11:29
Sending you a big hug and my sympathy; may Andy rest in peace and look down on you with love. Shirley (Whisler) ooxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 12:21
Thinking of you Aunty Helen today and every day. Love you so much Sam (Niece)

SMS April 26th, 2016 12:58
Hey Helen thinking of you today mate. We all miss Andy very much, and I wish I could take your pain away. Just know we are all here for you today and always. Kerry (Dawson) xxxxxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 14:39
Dearest Helen, words cannot express the feelings of pain you must be experiencing, our deepest sympathy to you and yours and Andy’s family… If there are small comforts for you it is the knowledge that Andy loved you with all his heart and knows that your love for him was the strongest anyone could wish for… The other small comfort is that now there is no more pain for him and now you have a beautiful angel in heaven represented in the stars that will be watching over you… Ray and I treasure the good times we have all had together and will always remember Andy as being a truly amazingly strong special person and a true gentleman that made the best of life that was shortened way to soon… Love and thoughts are with you, please let me help in any way… Jo & Ray (Vergone) xxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 14:45
Hey Helen, there is nothing I can say to truly express my thoughts to you. Just know you are loved and always in our hearts. Kel & Ads (Szczepanik) xxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 16:40
God bless you Helen. Our love and prayers still with you. If you need anything don’t hesitate to call in without notice. We’ll feed you and hug you Jo & Col (Gotch) xo

SMS April 26th, 2016 18:04
Hi Helen, so sorry to hear of Andy’s passing. I can’t imagine how you are feeling. We know that he was your world. All we can do is offer our deepest sympathy and let you know that we are here if there is anything at all that we can do for you. Take your time to grieve and let your family and friends give you all the support and help that they can. All our love Trish & Andrew (Thomas)

SMS April 26th, 2016 18:06
Oh Helen. I have waited all day to write this hoping to find something to say that can ease your pain, but there is nothing. If love could have saved Andy he would have been saved months ago. I cannot imagine how you are feeling, but hope that there is a little comfort knowing that Andy is out of pain. Yours was a great love. A special love. Your memories are many, to be spoken of often and treasured forever. Much love Robyn and Bruce (Garwood) x

SMS April 26th, 2016 19:51
Hi Helen. You are such an amazing woman. Even though I was a bit late in my visit. I could see how much he was loved. I am letting all your work friends know about Andy as long as you are good with that. I wish I could help more and let me know if/when I can. Andy was so lucky to have you as his partner and you did everything you could to make his life a fulfilling one. Talk soon. Love always Treena (Meagher)

SMS April 26th, 2016 20:10
So sorry for you Helen. So lost for words. Lots of Love and Respect to you Helen and my Deepest Condolences at this very challenging time. Antonio (Corea) xo

SMS April 26th, 2016 20:38
Hi Helen, we are so sad at the loss of your wonderful husband and our dear friend Andy. Our thoughts are with you and your family’s regards Mark, Maree, Amy & Lochlan (Brown) xxx

SMS April 26th, 2016 21:14
Helen, our strength and thoughts are with you. All our love Debbie & Phil (Peet) xxxxx

SMS April 27th, 2016 07:50
Hi Miss Helen, we are thinking of you and words can’t explain what is happening, but we will never forget Andy. Luv and big kisses from Me (Smokey) and Kerry (Dawson)

SMS April 27th, 2016 08:06
Just to let you know I’m thinking of you and Andy with much love today. A hard day for you darling, but as you always have done you will be there for Andy, and you will do what you want to do for him and start to organise him the send-off that you want to give him, even though you will shed a river of tears. Aunty Lynne (You and Andy are a great team and one of the great love stories)

SMS April 27th, 2016 08:51
Hello Helen. Please accept my condolences on Andy’s passing away. Please be strong and you and your family will be in my thoughts at this sad time. Love Una (Pereira) xx

SMS April 27th, 2016 09:05
Just heard the news. Want to let you know my deep felt sorrow at your loss. My thoughts are with you always. Trevor (Transeals)

SMS April 27th, 2016 19:52
Hi Helen, greatest sympathy for your loss of such a great guy. He fought a good battle, but is now at peace. Lots of Love Bruce & Christine (Transeals)

“Andy’s Birthday” Sitting on the Porch, Home Champion Lakes

21st February, 2016

Today was Andy’s 53rd birthday. I love how relaxed and happy Andy looks, dressed smart and looking handsome. This was a favourite place of Andy’s to sit especially in the mornings – he loved to see the sun come up with a coffee & cigarette in tow. I remember his wish for himself that year, which was to make his birthday, then mine, our 30th wedding anniversary, and another Christmas; sadly Andy’s birthday and mine were the last we got to share together; showing that every minute, every hour, and every moment of every day counts, as they can be taken from you in an instance. Today was going to be a good day no matter what, and we enjoyed every moment. We drove into Perth, as we liked going for drives just being out and about, added to that some birthday shopping (what’s a birthday without a spoil), and the piéce de résistance lunch at a great little spot we used to go when we had our escapes from Charlie’s hospital – they made the most amazing creamy pasta (another of Andy’s favourites), plus they had really good coffee (coffee was Andy’s thing – we always used to joke “Give Andy the Coffee and no one gets Hurt”). This was one of those moments worth celebrating, a day that Andy deserved many times over. “If he had a day, he was going to have that day”, and he did!

“Australia Day” Novotel Perth Langley, Perth WA

26th January, 2016

Andy had this great last minute idea to book a room for the Australia Day Fireworks, and I’m so glad we did, as we had the best time. When we could we’d grab these little getaways, and make the most of every moment. We pretty much didn’t leave the room – room service was our best friend, except when we first arrived we had lunch down in the Irish bar. Andy loved that he could just chill, watch the cricket, the fireworks, and just have fun doing whatever made us happy, as you can see we definitely got into the Aussie Day spirit. I’ll never forget sitting on the edge of the bed together watching the fireworks through this huge window, as if it was only us and no one else existed, and remembering how happy Andy was in that moment. That’s why I so love this photo of Andy with his huge smile, and the ‘thumbs up’ ‘I’m alright’, as it shows his amazing Aussie Spirit of never giving up, and making the most of every day, no matter what.

Cottesloe, Perth, Western Australia

31st December, 2015

Some moments are simply unforgettable – I knew the value of this moment before it became a memory. I will never forget Andy saying this was his best New Year ever – we were just happy being together, and I think of that night always. We’d been in hospital for most of December at Charlies, some of our hardest times, so we took leave from the hospital for a couple of hours to head down to Cottesloe for sunset, burgers, champers & ice cream – was the best. I then got to spend the night in hospital with Andy to see the year out – pretty special..!! A stranger took this photo for us, as we had plenty of funny attempts trying to capture the moment ourselves. There were only smiles that night. You can’t rewind a moment in life, and every day to Andy was a gift, and this was one of those times he made the most of – it will remain etched into my heart forever.

“Kings Canyon” Watarrka National Park, Northern Territory, Central Australia

9th May, 2015

Spectacular – around 500 steep steps to climb, but once you’ve made it to the top you forget everything, as the 360 degree views are jaw dropping. Next the epic “Rim Walk” a 6km trek around the top of the canyon – it’s a biggie phew, but worth every step..!! This shot of Andy is such a great photo, because those of you who really know Andy, know he isn’t a height person, so to be standing so far up on the edge of a cliff is a huge feat, and I got to capture this incredible photo of Andy on top of the world. I remember Andy saying this was one of the most spectacular places he’d seen on our road trip around OZ, and at night when back at camp we were serenaded by the Dingo’s – now that’s an experience.

“Blue Mountains, NSW” Lookouts – Mt Paddington overlooking Kanimbla Valley & Echo Point Katoomba

6th & 7th March, 2015

We stayed in Blackheath, a pretty little village one of the highest in the Blue Mountains, and every day we’d wake up to these beautiful misty mornings. Blackheath ended up being a great base for exploring the Blue Mountains – we loved everything about the region – it’s blue-hazed valleys, towering forests, sandstone cliffs, sheer canyons, waterfalls, walking tracks, quaint villages with loads of history, chilly mountain mornings, steep winding roads & views that amazed in every direction – Australia's Grand Canyon!! These photos of Andy with the Blue Mountains as his back drop, speak for themselves in showing how dramatically beautiful the landscape was.

“Fraser Island” Queensland

10th January, 2015

We decided to kick-start the year with Fraser Island & "what an adventure". We came in on this 30km inland track from Wangoolba Creek to Eurong 75 Mile Beach; track was rutted, soft, boggy, skinny, windy, undulating & "OOPS" we sunk in a hole up over the drawbar (1km from the end) - so embarrassing, as we held up a tag-a-long tour & 3 oka tour trucks; but with a little digging, and a huge heave ho from 20 or so backpackers we were on our way - yippee... back in action...thanks to Rainbow Beach tag-a-long - real troopers! Ranger later told us everyone towing comes in along the beach from Inskip Point; no one does the inland track, as the loose, soft sand makes towing almost impossible - think someone forget to tell us??

Fraser Island (one huge sand island) is amazing; Lake McKenzie - the most amazing crystal clear blue waters & white silica sand - wow, 75 Mile Beach - beach driving at its best, cool creeks, shipwrecks, pinnacles, champagne rock pools, dingo (lucky to see one chewing an old boot), Indian Head - breathtaking views, Lake Wabby - emerald green waters & huge sand blows (killer dunes) - was worth the walk in (Andy may say otherwise...), sea mist mornings, bogged vehicles, bogged vehicles & more bogged vehicles (we were not lone soldiers), arvo beers at the beach bar & easy days. We bounced our way off the island (via the beach this time) & yeah survived the adventure – unforgettable..!!

“Christmas” Golden Beach, Caloundra, QLD

25th December, 2014

We were so lucky to find this spot in Golden Bay, as just a few days before Christmas the power steering rack on the car sprung a leak (looked like it had been sitting on the bottom of the ocean for 100yrs barnacles and all), so had to moor up on the Sunshine Coast until after Christmas. We couldn’t believe we found a place to stay, a repairer, and a hire car being Christmas – place was chockers – moved 3 times within the park on our 10 day stay – was definitely a juggling act. But in Faireycamper style we made the most of it. Christmas Eve Andy & I took turns to go buy a present for each other, and the funniest thing was Christmas morning when we opened our presents wallah we’d got each other the same Nickelback CD… we put it down to spending twelve months on the road together, or from being together for 34 years – either way it was funny, so had to take this photo showing how in-sync we were. Could never forget our Aussie Christmas Day in Golden Bay – champers ‘n’ orange, ham sammies, drinks with the neighbours Ron & Olive and their family, and a picnic @ the beach; next day Andy chillaxed to cricket (all day), and dogs looked a little hung over – too many ham sammies, sun 'n' surf. A Christmas to remember…

“Camira Sailing Adventure” Airlie Beach, Whitsundays, Queensland

14th November, 2014

Fantastic Day!! We got on this big purple catamaran and set sail for what ended up being a wonderful day of sailing, snorkelling, and laying around on Whitehaven Beach, and OMG we could see why Whitehaven is world famous; the sands are soft & pure white, and the waters crystal clear – the photos say it all..!! On the boat we just got to lay back relax and take in the amazing scenery – with food and drinks supplied all day – an awesome way to explore the Whitsundays – was fun from when we set sail to when we docked, and one of the highlights of our stopover in Airlie Beach.

“Horizontal Falls Seaplane Adventure” Talbot Bay

14th September, 2014

Derby was our last pit stop, and gateway to the start of our “Gibb River” adventure. While in Derby we got to witness their king tides (some of the largest in the Southern Hemisphere), and take a seaplane trip to Horizontal Falls (where the massive tides of the Kimberley squeeze through two narrowly aligned cliffs in Talbot Bay). Horizontal Falls is only accessible by seaplane. We were so lucky, as scored the last flight of the season; our day started aboard this turbo propped seaplane that flew us over the spectacular Buccaneer Archipelago and King Sound, before flying over Horizontal Falls and landing in Talbot Bay (on water that was so calm it was like glass); we moored up alongside these huge floating platforms with seaplanes, jet boats, & accommodation tethered to it, we then got to jump in this incredibly fast jet boat for a wild ride through the falls, and OMG the tidal power of this natural phenomenon blows you away – it was an adrenaline pumping, thrilling, unique experience – so much fun; our day also included a BBQ Barramundi lunch, a swim in the shark free cage, a relaxing cruise through the untouched bays & creeks, then another bonus run through the falls (think our skipper was making the most of the last run for the season – we weren’t complaining) – such an awesome day – one of the highlights of our time in the Kimberley’s.

“Cable Beach” Broome, Western Australia

9th September, 2014

Beautiful Broome – was definitely on our list of places to visit again while on our ‘Big Lap’ around Australia, and as always it didn’t take us long to slip into Broome time. We happened to be there at the time of the Shinju Festival, so a lot going on, which was fun. Each evening we’d pack a couple of drinks and head down to the iconic Cable Beach to take in the sunset, camels, and watch the comings and goings – our favourite way to end the day. These photos remind me of our happy days in Broome having fun in the sun, and on the road – team Andy, Helen, Doogle ‘n’ Jack. Our trip around Australia wasn’t complete without our dogs in tow – they loved the adventure as well – biggest backyard ever.

“Lake Argyle” Kununurra, East Kimberley, Western Australia

2nd September, 2014

Lake Argyle is just one of many amazing attractions we got to see whilst travelling through the Kimberley’s; it is the largest freshwater man-made reservoir in WA, and a must see pit stop. One way we found to take in the panoramic views was from the “Infinity Pool” at Lake Argyle’s Resort & Caravan Park. Andy was totally unaware I took this photo & I’m so happy, as I got to snap this carefree laid back moment of Andy “chillin out in WA” – every time I look at this photo it reminds of all the amazing things Andy got to see and do on our travels round OZ, and the fact he got to just sit back, relax & enjoy it all means everything.

“Fishing” Town River, Limmen National Park, Top End Gulf, Northern Territory

29th August, 2014

One of our stops chasing around the Top End was the ‘Town River’. We found a great spot to camp, and were looking forward to doing a little Croc spotting and fishing. That night we shined our lights on the water, and no kidding more red eyes than we’d seen so far; were glad we camped back up on the ledge. I’ll never forget waking up the next day to this beautiful misty morning, where the water was so still it was like glass, and wow the reflections in the water – stunning. I snapped this photo of Andy fishing, which I so love, as every time I look at it, it transports me back to that place.

“Cape York Peninsula, Far North Queensland”

23rd July, 2014 (Tip) & 20th July, 2014 (Fruit Bat Falls)

Had a ball up the Cape (worst was the corrugations, dust holes, & dust, dust, dust), but enjoyed the rest - was definitely an adventure. Andy kept telling himself "it’s all about the drive - you have to look past the roads". Spent two weeks exploring rainforests, savannahs, falls, beaches, creek crossings (oodles of those), crocs - no toe dipping for us those things rule the Top End (there were some nice croc free swimming spots, so only toe dipped there), bats, snakes, wild pigs etc. It was an interesting place to visit & woohoo made it to the "Tip of Cape York" Northern most part of Australia - one we got to cross off the bucket list. The view from the “Tip” was amazing..!!

“Lake Copeton” near Inverell, NSW

8th June, 2014

This was such a beautiful spot we found on our travels around OZ, so we decided to stay for a few days and recharge our batteries. We had this great campsite down by the water that felt like our own little piece of paradise. We spent most of our days hanging around camp – just relaxing by the water, enjoying the sunshine, and trying our hand at some cod fishing (not much luck – didn’t like our gourmet worms); then when night fell we’d sit by the campfire having a few drinks watching the sun go down. Even Jack & Doogle (our dogs) got into the laid back lazy days around the lake. This photo of our campsite, with the sun going down, and Andy stoking the fire, is just one of those moments you’re so happy you captured – reminds me of our carefree days on the road.

“Mount Kosciusko Summit Walk” Kosciuszko National Park, Snowy Mountains Range, NSW

24th May, 2014

Climbed Mt Kozzy made it to the summit woohoo - Andy says it was an epic journey with no view - was an 8hr trek, but did cheat a little caught the chairlift up part way saving 3hrs trekking - cheeky huh - then we get to the top & couldn't see a thing as the fog set in - bummer, but was still worth it; so cold needed three layers of clothing, & still our nose, lips & fingertips were frozen... upgraded our bush camping to an apartment in Jindabyne temperatures were minus (brrrr)... knowing we were coming back to a nice log fire, red wine, and a big comfy lounge definitely warmed the cockles... a truly memorable day.

“Hebel Hotel & Nettleton’s First Shaft Lookout” Hebel, QLD & Lightning Ridge, NSW

5th May, 2014

We were staying in Lightning Ridge, and decided to take a short drive (80kms) to the border to say g’day to Queensland, and check out the historic ‘Hebel Hotel’ (once a Cobb & Co stopover). It was such a quirky, interesting pub, full of character – the walls on the outside were covered in artwork by John Murray (local artist in Lightning Ridge) – it was also thought that the Kelly Gang resided in Hebel under false names and drank at the pub, so we thought what a great place to come for a burger ‘n’ beer… we met another fellow traveller named Adam Kilpatrick, who was touring the outback doing gigs – not famous yet, but pretty good, so bought his CD. Got back to Lightning Ridge ready for sunset at ‘Nettleton’s First Shaft Lookout’ – best spot in Lightning Ridge to sit and watch the sun go down – beautiful big wide sunsets with magnificent colours – this silhouette of Andy standing on the ridge is one of my favourites, as when I look at it, it not only reminds of our time in Lightning Ridge, but how Andy always stood tall and proud no matter what.

“Nullarbor Golf - Eagles Nest Cocklebiddy & Nullarbor Nymph Eucla Beach” Western Australia

22nd December, 2013

Andy thought it would be a great challenge and make for an interesting drive across the Nullarbor, plus he did love his golf, and there was no way, when we left for our trip around OZ, that Andy wasn’t taking his clubs. ‘Nullarbor Links – the World’s Longest Golf Course’ is such a unique concept. This 18-hole par 72 golf course spans 1365km’s from Kalgoorlie in Western Australia to Ceduna in South Australia, along the Eyre Highway. For Andy Golfing on the semi-arid plains of the Nullarbor amongst the saltbush and bluebush scrub, scattered mulga, wildflowers, & limestone bedrock – not forgetting kangaroos, emus, eagles & flies… made for an unforgettable outback golf experience.

“EagleRider Headquarters” Los Angeles, California, USA

15th August, 2013

This was the end of our trip travelling the ‘Route 66’ Highway, known as the ‘Main Street of America’; stretching from Chicago to Los Angeles, crossing 3 time zones and 8 states: Illinois, Missouri, Kansas, Oklahoma, Texas, New Mexico, Arizona & California, and it was a road trip of a lifetime. A riding experience that far exceeded our expectations, and more fun than we could have ever imagined. Friendships and Memories were made – way too many stories to tell here as Helen, Andy, Kez, Smokey, Shaz & Willy’s t-shirts say ‘What happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas’ goes for ‘What happens on Route 66 stays on Route 66’. We celebrated the end of ‘Route 66’ with this amazing party at the EagleRider Headquarters – great finish to a great ride.

“Wild Hogs - Maggies Diner” Madrid, New Mexico

9th August, 2013

We’d been having the time of our lives traveling the famous ‘Route 66’ with EageRider Motorcycle Tours, when they surprised us with a visit to Madrid where the ‘Wild Hogs’ movie was filmed. This photo outside Maggies Diner is our version of a ‘Wild Hogs’ crew – Elena & Sergio, Stella & Pino, Smokey, Helen, Kez, Willy, Nev, Shaz, Alan, Pops, Bronson, Wog, Calla, Corpy, Andy, Hermy & Magoo outside Maggies Diner, and what a great motley crew..!! Maggies Diner is now a gift shop, but was a cool place to stop, and feel like a ‘Wild Hog’ for the day.

“Sunset Kiss” Waikiki Beach, Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii

18th August, 2012

This is one of my favourites, as it’s such a romantic photo, and Andy was a romantic at heart. We were staying at the Waikiki Shore one of our favourite places to stay to with friends Shaz & Willy. This night we all went down the beach to watch the sun go down, and check out the Friday night fireworks. My girlfriend Sharon took this photo, and I’m so glad she did, as this is one of those amazing moments that reminds me of the story of us & the love we shared.

“Port Arthur” Tasmania

27th February, 2011

Port Arthur was a must-see destination on our list of things to do while in Tasmania. It’s an incredible place to visit, steeped in history, and is one of the best-preserved convict settlements in Australia. I so love this nonchalant photo of Shaz, Helen, Kez, Smokey, Andy & Willy hanging out on the steps of one of many historic buildings. Andy, I am biased, just looks so relaxed and happy. Reminds me of our easy-going days together travelling with nothing but the best of friends.

Las Vegas, Nevada, USA

27th August, 2009

This photo of Andy, Ray, Jo, Michael, Sharon, Helen, Marg, Jeff, Sue and Mick with the Hummer outside our hotel in Vegas is such a great photo, in what was an awesome day. This was one of many trips we’d done to Vegas, but this one was extra special, as it was for our ‘Best Friends Vow Renewal’ and we all got to share in that amazing day and night – was so much fun. The best part was it was a total surprise, and when this photo was taken Sharon had no idea what was to come – a walk down the aisle with Elvis, an Elvis serenade, dancing in the aisles & a huge night to follow – there is many a story to be told here. Andy & I were honoured to be part of Sharon & Michael’s big event, and it was a vow renewal to remember..!!

Disenchantment Bay at the end of Yakutat Bay, Alaska “Hubbard Glacier”

20th August, 2009

Cruising the inside passage from Vancouver, Canada to Anchorage, Alaska we had a chance to witness this mesmerizing natural wonder, and it is gigantic..!! We could hear the thunder as the ice cliffs broke away - was so amazing to see – definitely lives up to its breathtaking reputation. I love this photograph, and I’m glad Andy got to see this in his lifetime.

Banff National Park, Alberta, Canada “Lake Louise”

7th August, 2009

Exploring Lake Louise by canoe was one of the many spectacular things we got to do while travelling through the Icefields Parkway from Banff National Park to Jasper National Park. You’re in a canoe in the middle of the lake, and all you see all around you is the most stunning turquoise water surrounded by tall snow-capped rugged peaks – it just takes your breath away – up there with some of the most pristine and picturesque lakes you’ll ever see. Andy says it all with his ‘here we are – oars in the air’ – making it impossible to forget summer canoeing on the lake…

“Ha Long Bay” Hanoi, Vietnam

21st February, 2009

Hanoi was the final destination of our 19 day Vietnam Discovery Tour with Bunnik – a tour that far exceeded our expectations, as did Vietnam. While in Hanoi we got to enjoy an overnight junk boat cruise through Ha Long Bay, which is known for its emerald green waters and thousands of towering limestone islands topped by rainforests. This day also happened to be Andy’s birthday, so was a great way to spend the day and night. We boarded the ‘Huong Hai Junk’ (a traditional wooden junk) and were welcomed with this delicious lunch with plenty of fresh seafood, as we took off to cruise the hundreds of islets of Ha Long Bay. Our first stop of the day was Sung Sot (Surprise) Cave, which is one of the largest grottoes in Ha Long Bay, and then later on we got to put our feet in the sand at Titov Beach one of Ha Long Bays finest beaches – top day. Where we moored up for the night there were these local vendors that would come around in row boats trying to sell us anything from fruit, to snacks, smokes, & alcoholic drinks – Andy couldn’t resist not buying. That night our guide had organised this amazing dinner for everyone including surprising Andy with this massive cake and bunch of roses – was just the best. After dinner we got to try our hand at exotic squid fishing, before a night cap and bedding down in these small cosy cabins. A fantastic experience, and great end to an amazing trip.

“V8 Supercars” Barbagallo Raceway, Wanneroo, Perth WA

10th – 11th May, 2008

Andy was a true blue Holden fan, and enjoyed motor racing, and for a few years running we got to go experience the V8 Supercars at Barbagallo Raceway – it was a huge event, and a great day out flying the flag in support of Holden who happened to come 2nd at this event. Check out Andy showing off his ‘Castrol Special Edition V8 Supercars’ wrist watch; Andy was what I call a veteran collector of watches – he had so many watches from inexpensive to expensive, that as soon as he spotted this one it was a ‘must have’ for his collection.

“Beaching & Golfing” Mauritius

29th & 30th September, 2007

On our way back from Africa we stopped over in Mauritius for a couple of days; we were heading home, but still in holiday mode. The Hotel Maritim where we stayed on the North West Coast between Port Louis and Grand Bay was beautiful. It was beachfront, had its own 6 hole golf course, which Andy thought was a huge bonus as loved his golf – was always keen to grab the boys & have a game. This day we all went for a game: Jo, Ray, Andy, Helen, Willy & Shaz – don’t know who won, but was a lot of fun. We found when in Mauritius you eat, relax and play. This other photo of our afternoon into evening down the beach was nothing short of hilarious & entertaining – we laughed all night, crazy coconuts we were, and there was no way any of us would ever forget our own private beach party in Mauritius.

“3 Day Hwange Safari” Hwange National Park, West Zimbabwe, Africa

25th September, 2007

When we booked our 21 Day Southern Discoverer Overland Adventure from Nairobi to Victoria Falls with Africa Travel Co, we scored a free 3 Day Hwange Safari trip. Hwange National Park is located about an hour’s drive from the Mighty Victoria Falls, and is Zimbabwe’s oldest and biggest National Park. This game reserve was a favourite with all of us; what we loved the most was the large concentrations of wildlife, particularly elephants, and how uncrowded it was – felt like you were the only group on safari. One of the waterholes we were at this large herd of elephants come in to drink and bathe; to see such a big herd only feet’s away was amazing, so we sat silently and watched for a while; a couple of the elephants with a baby in tow wandered behind the truck, and when it saw us got a little skittish – staring us down, shaking its head, flapping its ears, kicking up some dust, so we slowly backed up – thankfully it was only a ‘mock’ charge to show us who was boss and ward us off – pretty scary – you can see in the photo how close it was and where Andy was sitting. In Hwange we were lucky enough to see most of the “Big 5” Lion, Buffalo, Elephant, Rhino, plus Giraffes, Hippo’s, Zebras and African Wild Dogs, except the elusive Leopard at this park. Being in Zimbabwe was an experience that truly opened our eyes, as 2007 was a year of great conflict, and you could see the effects of that on Zimbabwe and its people – it was a place of great sadness next to places of outstanding beauty.

Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe “Walking with the Lions”

23rd September, 2007

On our adventure through Africa we had an incredible experience “Walking with the Lions”. Being able to see these magnificent creatures up close and personal in a natural environment was beyond both our wildest dreams. Knowing this programme was all about ensuring a secure future for the African Lion, and that one day they were going to be re-introduced back into the wild to roam free, made this experience unforgettable - a once in a lifetime moment that we got to do together..!!

“White-Water Rafting Zambezi River” Batoka Gorge, Zimbabwe

22nd September, 2007

Wet ‘n’ Wild on the mighty Zambezi – this was a whole other experience; one of the most adrenaline filled rides ever – it was challenging, exciting, exhilarating, hair-raising, thrilling, white knuckle & wild, a day that was ‘Scary’ & ‘Fun’, and one we still talk about today. We had to navigate 19 Grade 4 & 5 rapids, each rapid had a name and the names alone were enough to get your heart pumping, such as Stairway to Heaven, Devils Toilet Bowl, The Muncher, The Terminator & Oblivion. This photo of Jo, Helen, Shane, Shaz, Ray, Michael & Andy shows just how powerful the water was. Andy was having the time of his life – we all were, but there were two very scary moments. The first was when one of the scout guides checking out the rapid ahead was catapulted from the rapid, and torpedoed straight towards our raft; luckily most of us saw it coming and quickly parted as it shot through the middle of the raft, scrapping helmets as it went through, nearly taking out one of our own, Jo, at the rear of the raft, a very frightening moment. The second was on this monster of a rapid we opted to go through, and not around – maybe a crazy decision, as OMG it was a washing machine, and before long we were flipped, raft landing on top. We were all scrambling to grab onto the side of the raft, everyone doing their best to find, and help each other. I remember Shaz saying how she spotted Andy and he pulled her in; Jo & myself ended up caught underneath, and trying to keep your calm in a white-water whirlpool is scary, especially when you can’t breathe. Jo popped out from underneath and the guide pulled her up and onto the underside of the raft. The rest of us were eventually able to find something to grab hold of until the raft floated us out of the rapids. After 19 rapids we had to walk out of the gorge, which was a very steep climb of 250m, and not to be underestimated. We walked out, got our breath back, and realised we’d just rafted and survived the mighty Zambezi, a river that tested us all, but we conquered and got to enjoy another day..!!

“Ngorongoro Crater” West of Arusha, Tanzania, Africa

4th September, 2007

Unbelievable day! We got to spend a whole day in this protected world heritage site, and it was unlike anything else we visited. Our journey getting to the crater, which sits 7500m above sea level with its 600 metre walls, was half the fun – first we had to climb up through patches of forest to the crater rim, then drive around the rim not being able to see two feet in front of us because of the misty morning (scary but exhilarating), and OMG that first peek descending to the crater floor – wow – felt like we’d dropped into a lost world teeming with wildlife. The sweeping vistas and terrain of grassland, forest, marsh, and lakes, with the crater wall as a backdrop was stunning and beautiful, but the absolute best part was it was home to nearly every species of African animal, including the “Big 5”, and in the shallow crater lake all you could see were these huge flocks of pink flamingos, herds of zebra’s drinking on the water’s edge, and hippo’s basking in the sun – just incredible. Amongst all that – the Masai, who were allowed to graze and water their cattle in the crater, but had to leave each night. Exploring the crater was such an amazing experience and something special – not only because of the natural beauty of the place, but the wildlife that never disappointed – you name it – we saw it. At times we didn’t know which way to look – check out Andy’s big smile says it all...!!!

“Perth Cup” Ascot Racecourse, Ascot, Perth WA
1st January, 2006

Our days at the ‘Perth Cup’ were definitely New Year Day celebrations to remember, and we loved every moment of being there soaking up, what I call, the epic ‘Perth Cup’ atmosphere – such a fantastic day out with a great bunch of friends, and an awesome way to begin the New Year; sometimes we’d even do a back to back, NY’s Eve & NY’s Day, don’t know how we did it (lots of energy drinks), but it was worth it, and we survived. Andy was always the first at the track, so he could get us a prime spot for the day, and he did well. One of his favourite parts of the day was having a flutter at the bookies – he would give himself a budget, not that he ever stuck to it, and anything over that was a bonus, or if he blew it all he didn’t care, as it was a great day out; that year ‘Black Tom’ took out the ‘Cup’. These photos tell that story of our summer days at the ‘Cup’, and remind me of how much fun we had - there’s so many stories I could tell you of our days at Ascot, but as the saying goes “what happens at the cup stays at the cup”. I’m so glad my best friend captured these moments, as I can’t help but smile every time I look at them…

“Perth Cup” Ascot Racecourse, Ascot, Perth WA
1st January, 2006

“Waitomo’s Black Water Rafting – ‘Black Abyss’ Caving and Rafting Adventure” North Island, NZ

23rd November, 2004

One of the top activities we’d done on the North Island. This was a 5 hour underground adventure and so worth it. On the day we decided to do this, it was so popular we nearly had to draw straws, as didn’t have enough spots for all of us. Luckily they were a great bunch and squeezed us all in. Firstly, we had to be kitted out in these flattering wetsuits, have a safety drill and some training. Then the adventure began – abseiling, caving, cave tubing, zip lining, jumps, climbing waterfalls, weaving & crawling through small dark spaces, before popping out a hole to daylight – got your adrenaline pumping, was very cold ‘n’ wet, but loads of fun, and were definitely ready for a hot shower afterwards. Great way to explore the caves and see the glow worms.

“Milford Sound” Fiordland National Park, South Island NZ

18th November, 2004

New Zealand’s South Island wasn’t complete without a visit to Milford Sound, and it was so worth it – a spectacular, unspoiled location that just takes your breath away – not only because it’s so, so, cold, but because of the dramatic natural beauty of the place – stunning sheer cliffs, icy ink-dark waters, frosty alpine peaks, and cascading waterfalls. The perfect way to explore was by boat (Red Boat Cruises), and not even the chilly frosty morning was going to deter us, even if our nose, lips & fingertips were frozen – we just had to layer up, keep each other warm, and brave the cold – the frosty morning made for an even more striking backdrop. You just have to look at Andy & me to know how cold it was, but we loved it – another amazing destination.

Utah, USA “Bryce Canyon” & Eastern California “Death Valley”

12th August, 2003

Such a great photo of Andy looking out over ‘Death Valley’, and another with his friends – Glenn, Pete, Axle & Eric at Bryce Canyon, while on their epic ride across America for Sturgis’s 63rd Motorcycle Rally in South Dakota, and Harley Davidson’s 100th Anniversary in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

“Boys being Boys” Shed at Kurrajong Way, Westfield

16th July, 2002

These photos of Andy with his Nephews Aaron, Shea, Kane, Mitchell & Thomas at Kurrajong Way is a classic ‘Boys being Boys’ moment hanging out in the shed… Andy had a passion for cars and bikes, and if ever they wanted to know anything Andy was happy to answer any questions, or help in any way – would have done anything for those boys.

“Falls Creek” Victoria

10th to 17th September, 1995

This was our first time snow skiing, and it was packed with fun – even got to build a snowman. We stayed at the Snowdrift Lodge, which was just down the road from the main ski bowl and chairlifts – a great place to stay. We hired out some skis, took a couple of lessons, and hit the slopes. At the end of the day we came back to a warm room, soothing spa (to refresh our weary bodies), open fire, welcoming cocktail bar, & some of the best gourmet food (even though some nights we just had to go out for a good pizza). On the 13th just a few days after we arrived, Andy had a fall, and his ski ran over his right hand fracturing one of his fingers. He was told not to ski for the rest of the trip, so tried following me around for a day on the slopes, but there was no way he wasn’t going to ski, so next day was back at it. We did fall over more often than we’d like to say, but stuck at it, and once we got our groove you couldn’t stop us. Weather was amazing nice and sunny (even got burnt a couple of times), but plenty of snow even though we were towards the end of the season. We loved that you could catch a ride to the top of the slopes where you could grab a bite to eat, or a hot drink at Cloud 9 (top of the chairlift), then ski back down into the village and park up at the Frying Pan Inn for a cold beer. One of the nights the Frying Pan Inn had a live band – The Chantozies – we ended up staying for more drinks, met a few people, and had a huge night. This was one of our all-time favourite trips.