Pamela Julianna Wheeler-Hart
24 June 1953 – 13 December 2023
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What a beautiful video tribute to a truly incredible woman! I am truly sorry that I only knew PJ from a professional perspective, she looks just as awesome personally as she was throughout her career and it was an absolute honour to know and work with her. PJ and I first met at an industry event in Perth, our rapport was immediate and my respect for PJ, from day 1, was vast. We shared a love of projects "done well", and had both developed a passion for a particular area of project delivery called project controls. PJs excellence and courage in field were unparalleled, and she is a role model for female engineers everywhere. Sending love and deep condolences, Loretta.
RIP Lady P
Will never forget the 2 dinners I use to get when coming round to yours-trying new foods (that was my excuse) and scares when getting a lift into town Oh me they were scary haha.
You will be solely missed by Tara, Gabriel-Shane, Craig and everyone else who knew and loved you, will miss that lovely infectious smile of yours and leading me stray with a sambuca or 2 which I still hate haha,
Sleep tight Pamela now that your reunited with Shane n Madison 💕
Love Always until we meet again Linda xx
Beautiful video!
You will be missed Pamela.
You were one of a kind.
Love you ❤️
Deepest condolences to Tara, Gabriel, Craig and all those who loved Pamela.
Rest in Peace PJ!
You were an amazing lady with a killer smile!!
We will miss you ❤️
Vivacious, stylish, generous, kind, down to earth, approachable, fun to be with…
Lady Pamela was all these things.
She has set a blueprint ( very appropriately for an Engineer 🙃) of how best to live a life to its very end. Will always be remembered warmly my friend.
♥️ Condolences and healing to Nathanial, Tara , Gabriel, Family and Friends.
Goodbye aunty.
RIP Pamela shine bright up in heaven you will be missed by family and friends ❤️
Heavenly Father, I want to thank you for the blessing that was Pamela. I was privileged to be able to call her my Aunt. I will cherish those wonderful memories I have with her and my uncle together. The light that shined on those two was radiant, warm and everlasting.
Love you always,
Zaine and Ting.
Auntie Pamela, what an amazing, strong passionate woman and force of nature you were. You led life to the fullest!
Always great memories of the times you'd fly in to Uk...London..Brighton. A lot of laughs, fun and family. Your visit to stay with us in Cambridgeshire is particularly memorable, glam night on the town...if not a bit hazy by the time we collapsed in to bed in the early hours! Always so kind and generous.
Rest in peace Pamela; you will be much missed. Your spirit can join Mum, and your beloved Shane and Madison.
Your service was so lovely. You had an amazing life.
Beautiful, touching words from Tara and Gabriel, and your friends. RIP, much love from the Haston family ❤❤❤
Rest in peace, beautiful lady. your sparkling spirt will be remembered by everyone you met. Condolences to all who really loved you xxx
Today we will drink champagne in your honour 🥂. You shined like the brightest star in the sky ⭐️. So it won’t be hard to find you in the twilight sky when we look up to say hello 🤍. We will miss you for the rest of our lives. Forever in our hearts 💞 Flipper and Dr Googles 🤣
Lady P, the pain is now over and you can now rest in peace leaving behind beautiful memories of a life and love well lived. I will have a wee dram or two (or three) in memory of the Robbie Burns night I shared with you and Nathanial. RIP Dear Lady!
Untill we meet again my Sister
Love ❤️ You
What an awesome lady you were! Always be remembered. R I P.
Our Lady Pamela ❤️
Her radiant smile illuminated the lives of all fortunate enough to know her, leaving behind a legacy of warmth and kindness. May her memory continue to shine brightly in the hearts of those she touched, reminding us of the beauty she brought to the world. In her absence, we will mourn the loss of an extraordinary soul, yet celebrates the gift of having been graced by her presence.
As we honor her memories, we will be raising a glass of Scotch or two in tribute, toasting not only to the remarkable life she lived but also to the enduring spirit that continues to inspire us.
Rest in Peace, Lady Pamela
Sincere condolences to Nathaniel & family. You will be missed by all. Always in our hearts 💕 Brian, Sharon, Matthew, Joel & All of Nobles Crew
Always living life to the fullest.. ♥️
This world has lost a truly beautiful person, Pamela was full of life, positivity, energy, love and kindness - a lasting impression was made!
When we moved to Australia, I was stressed, pregnant and homesick, Pam arrived one morning, as glam and vivacious as ever with the most welcoming smile and hug!
Memories of doing your nails, you making the best haggis, neeps, tatties, and whiskey sauce and parties at Tara’s.
What a wonderful lady.
Rest in Peace Pam.
Sincere condolences to the family, you will be missed by all xx Deborah
Lady Pamela certainly made a great impression with her quick wit and unique style. She was a beautiful classy lady who will be missed by many.
My thoughts and prayers are with her family and all those who loved Pamela at this very difficult time. It’s fortunate that she got to spend some quality time with Tara and Gabriel-Shane who she was so proud of shortly before she passed.
Love from Sandra ❤️
My dear friend PJ. Many memories of fabulous times spent together. The kindness, care, generosity and loyalty you gave will be with me and those around you always. Miss you Pamela, may you be at peace.
Nath. Please take heart. My family is with you at ment of grieve.
We pray the God almighty in His infinite mercy will grant her eternal rest in His paradise.
Great aunt Pamela was fun and so kind to us, sending post cards of her exciting adventures and special thoughtful gifts from Australia.
We loved chatting to you only a few weeks before you passed away. You asked us all about school .
We will never forget you !
much love Lucy and Rosanna xxx
Aunt Pamela was one of a kind, much loved by us all and we feel so privileged that we knew her. She was so full of fun and adventure. Pamela had a heart of kindness for others, ever giving , always loving.
My Mum (sister Sandra) would have loved to have met you .. but I think deep down in her heart she knew she had a sister .
You were much loved Pamela and that love will never grow dim for you as we will continue to love you and cherish all the beautiful memories you’ve given us!
We are so thankful that you’re now at peace …. no more suffering,…. and I trust now in heaven with the Lord Jesus, who came to visit us on earth, to show us the greatest love known to mankind.
Jesus said “ I am the resurrection and the life. Anyone who believes in me will live, even after dying. xxxx
Pamela, your memory will be treasured by all who knew & loved you. No one lived life to the full as much as you. You were an inspiration to us all. Missing you so much, but the wonderful memories of all the amazing, fun times we shared will live on forever. Love you always! Sandra & Pete
Pamela, no one loved life more than you!! We will never forget you.
Love the Swane Family
An old school college from Rosa Bassett
Grammar school in England in the 60s
We both chose a new start in Australia many years ago
My condolences to your family
Rest in peace Pamela
Xx
Pamela- your memory will live on for many years to come for so many of us. Thank you!
Will (MBA of 1994).
Fond memories of a gorgeous woman, who loved life and those around her.
Her genuine loving and caring aura was like no others
You were a blessing to all that loved her.
Sending love, hugs, prayers and strength to Nathanial and the entire family
Rest Peacefully beautiful lady
Xx
Continue to shine bright and embrace Shane once more.
A woman to be reckoned with and as a teen one to be scared of,although that fear never did leave me.
Happy and fun memories always made in your company. Loved and missed by Alice Haydn & Family xxx
Shall celebrate your life along with your darling daughter Tara with a 'prickly pear' or two xx
R.I.P my dear friend. A beautiful person now an angel. Be a peace Pamela and enjoy your life up there with shane. You'll be very missed down here. Thank you for you friendship. Xxxxx
Heaven has gained another angel. Rest in Peace with Shane. Forever in our hearts ♥️
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