Francesca Elizabeth Oakes 11 November 1931 – 15 August 2024
CONTRIBUTE
TO MEMORY TIMELINE
My sincere condolences to Joy and Marlon and family on the passing of my dear sister, and their mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. May Betty find eternal peace in the company of our mother Annie, and her sisters Phyllis, Francesca (Babs), and Theresa.
Our deepest sympathy and sincere condolences Joy ,Marlon & Family. We pray God's comfort & strength to all of you, during this sad and difficult time. 🙏 Rest in Eternal Peace Aunty Betty'. Warm Regards & Blessings Kelvin, Lolly & Family
My friend, my heart is sore with you. Ma’s life has lift us with fondest memories. Sending lots of hugs to you Joy and all the family. Accept our deepest condolences at the time. My heart is there with you guys.
Sincere condolences to you and your family, Joy. What a privilege and blessing to have known her. I will forever treasure her memories. May her gentle soul rest in eternal peace. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Solly and Bernie
Our deepest condolences to you, Joy, your family and extended family in South Africa on the passing of an amazing woman of God! May God the Holy Spirit comfort you all at this time! Her life, legacy and memories live on! She’s safe in the arms of Jesus! May her soul rest in peace and rise in glory! ❤️ Israel family NZ 💐
>read onMy Deepest sympathy to and family.Msy God Comfort you at this very sad time. Rip dear Betty.
Heartfelt and Deepest Sympathy to Joy, Marlon and the extended family on the loss of your beloved Mum. Mrs Oakes will be remembered with love always. She was a Kind Teacher, a Fantastic Colleague, Supportive Mentor with a mischievous sense of humour! Rest In Peace and Rise In Glory Mrs Oakes! ❤️🩹
Heartfelt condolences on the passing of your mum, and my aunty. Though time and continents separated us, the enigmatic bond of family remained strong. Memories of the past flood back: the demure self-made woman, strong and colourful like the Jacaranda tree. The unique timbre of her voice was always comforting and warm. Aunty Betty will be remembered as a dedicated teacher to hundreds of Woodlands children; they were mounded and guided by one of the best. A woman of compassion, and hearty humour. When last we spoke, she chastised me for my silver goatee, saying it had to go. She wanted to remember only my angel face! If pictures paint thousands of words, then my mother's photo collection attests to a colorful past. Aunty Betty was one of a girl-gang called "The Trio" which included Pam Green-Thompson (Easthorpe), Mary Damon (Thompson) and, of course Francesca (Betty) Thompson (Oakes). In passing, your mother will be joining her old friends; may they have many more moments of girl-gang time. Rest in Peace and many more good times. (A note of correction and apology for mistaking the name of my Aunty Babs...her name was Antonia. There weren't two sisters with the name Francesca. I was having a senior moment and my more senior dad also didn't notice the error.)
Our deepest condolences to you Joy, Marlon and all the family. May Aunty Betty dance with the angels as she rests in perfect peace. May the Holy Spirit strengthen and comfort you during this difficult time. Sending you lots of love and hugs Kelvin, Lolly and family 🌷🙏
My sincere condolences with the passing of our dearest Mrs Oakes. How can one ever forget her loving heart. May God fill you with His peace and may His joy be your strength. God bless. Anne and family ❤️🛐
Heartfelt condolences to Lollo,Joy,Marlon and families on the passing of Betty.Our bond of true ,unconditional friendship formed in 1968,filled with precious memories,will forever be cherished. Thank you for all the times you came through for me...for just listening,without telling me what to do..for hugging me and saying it's okay..for your keen sense of humour...for laughs over nothing...for even laughing at ourselves ..for all the fun and mischief we shared.Sleep softly,my dearest friend.Always loved and remembered.
Our condolences to Joy, Marlon and the Family on the passing of our dear Aunty Betty Oakes. I will always remember my Aunty Betty as a soft spoken, calm , affectionate and sometimes mischievous person. We will miss her dearly. Rest in perfect peace my dearest Aunt Betty
Our deepest condolences to aunt Joy, uncle Marlon, the Boys and their families. Aunty Betty will be sorely missed. Such an inspiration to all. She'll forever be in our hearts and memories. ❤️🤲
Sincere condolences to Lollo, Joy, Marlin and families. Thank you for the many years of friendship that we shared. We experienced joy, love and many hours of mischievous laughter. Farewell my dear and faithful friend. Till we meet again. Edith Manuel and family
Joy, Marlon and the Boys ,May the wonderful memories of Ma Betty help ease your sorrow and comfort you. It's hard to say Goodbye to someone so loved. Ma Betty, rest in peace. We know you are with the angels smiling down on us.
Joy, Marlon your family and Aunty Betty's family. Please accept heartfelt and deepest sympathies. May dear aunty Betty rest in eternal peace . Angels receive her and present her to God most high ❤️
Our sincere condolences to Joy ,Marlon and all the family May Betty Rest In Peace safe in the arms of our Lord .We remember Betty with so much Love a very special sister in law always with a beautiful smile .❤️🙏
Our Condolences to Joy, Marilon and Family, sorry for your loss. May Betty's soul rest in Peace 🙏
Ma Betty rest in peace. Condolences to aunty Joy uncle Marlon my ma Jean and all the family. Love Braydon and Noleen
My dearest Aunty Betty ❤️the queen of Sudoku🥹may your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace 🤍🕊️My deepest condolences to the family 🙏 Gone but never forgotten. Sending love,hugs and kisses Jeverne & Liam
My seepest condolences to Joy, Marlon and family. May aunty Betty ,s soul.rest in peace God bless you all
My sincere condolences to Joy and Marlon and family on the passing of my dear sister, and their mother, mother-in-law, and grandmother. May Betty find eternal peace in the company of our mother Annie, and her sisters Phyllis, Francesca (Babs), and Theresa. Read full message here.
Our deepest sympathy and sincere condolences Joy ,Marlon & Family. We pray God's comfort & strength to all of you, during this sad and difficult time. 🙏 Rest in Eternal Peace Aunty Betty'. Warm Regards & Blessings Kelvin, Lolly & Family Read full message here.
My friend, my heart is sore with you. Ma’s life has lift us with fondest memories. Sending lots of hugs to you Joy and all the family. Accept our deepest condolences at the time. My heart is there with you guys. Read full message here.
Sincere condolences to you and your family, Joy. What a privilege and blessing to have known her. I will forever treasure her memories. May her gentle soul rest in eternal peace. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Solly and Bernie Read full message here.

Our deepest condolences to you, Joy, your family and extended family in South Africa on the passing of an amazing woman of God! May God the Holy Spirit comfort you all at this time! Her life, legacy and memories live on! She’s safe in the arms of Jesus! May her soul rest in peace and rise in glory! ❤️ Israel family NZ 💐
My Deepest sympathy to and family.Msy God Comfort you at this very sad time. Rip dear Betty. Read full message here.
Heartfelt and Deepest Sympathy to Joy, Marlon and the extended family on the loss of your beloved Mum. Mrs Oakes will be remembered with love always. She was a Kind Teacher, a Fantastic Colleague, Supportive Mentor with a mischievous sense of humour! Rest In Peace and Rise In Glory Mrs Oakes! ❤️🩹 Read full message here.
Heartfelt condolences on the passing of your mum, and my aunty. Though time and continents separated us, the enigmatic bond of family remained strong. Memories of the past flood back: the demure self-made woman, strong and colourful like the Jacaranda tree. The unique timbre of her voice was always comforting and warm. Aunty Betty will be remembered as a dedicated teacher to hundreds of Woodlands children; they were mounded and guided by one of the best. A woman of compassion, and hearty humour. When last we spoke, she chastised me for my silver goatee, saying it had to go. She wanted to remember only my angel face! If pictures paint thousands of words, then my mother's photo collection attests to a colorful past. Aunty Betty was one of a girl-gang called "The Trio" which included Pam Green-Thompson (Easthorpe), Mary Damon (Thompson) and, of course Francesca (Betty) Thompson (Oakes). In passing, your mother will be joining her old friends; may they have many more moments of girl-gang time. Rest in Peace and many more good times. (A note of correction and apology for mistaking the name of my Aunty Babs...her name was Antonia. There weren't two sisters with the name Francesca. I was having a senior moment and my more senior dad also didn't notice the error.) Read full message here.
Our deepest condolences to you Joy, Marlon and all the family. May Aunty Betty dance with the angels as she rests in perfect peace. May the Holy Spirit strengthen and comfort you during this difficult time. Sending you lots of love and hugs Kelvin, Lolly and family 🌷🙏 Read full message here.
My sincere condolences with the passing of our dearest Mrs Oakes. How can one ever forget her loving heart. May God fill you with His peace and may His joy be your strength. God bless. Anne and family ❤️🛐 Read full message here.
Heartfelt condolences to Lollo,Joy,Marlon and families on the passing of Betty.Our bond of true ,unconditional friendship formed in 1968,filled with precious memories,will forever be cherished. Thank you for all the times you came through for me...for just listening,without telling me what to do..for hugging me and saying it's okay..for your keen sense of humour...for laughs over nothing...for even laughing at ourselves ..for all the fun and mischief we shared.Sleep softly,my dearest friend.Always loved and remembered. Read full message here.
Our condolences to Joy, Marlon and the Family on the passing of our dear Aunty Betty Oakes. I will always remember my Aunty Betty as a soft spoken, calm , affectionate and sometimes mischievous person. We will miss her dearly. Rest in perfect peace my dearest Aunt Betty Read full message here.
Our deepest condolences to aunt Joy, uncle Marlon, the Boys and their families. Aunty Betty will be sorely missed. Such an inspiration to all. She'll forever be in our hearts and memories. ❤️🤲 Read full message here.
Sincere condolences to Lollo, Joy, Marlin and families. Thank you for the many years of friendship that we shared. We experienced joy, love and many hours of mischievous laughter. Farewell my dear and faithful friend. Till we meet again. Edith Manuel and family Read full message here.
Joy, Marlon and the Boys ,May the wonderful memories of Ma Betty help ease your sorrow and comfort you. It's hard to say Goodbye to someone so loved. Ma Betty, rest in peace. We know you are with the angels smiling down on us. Read full message here.
Joy, Marlon your family and Aunty Betty's family. Please accept heartfelt and deepest sympathies. May dear aunty Betty rest in eternal peace . Angels receive her and present her to God most high ❤️ Read full message here.
Our sincere condolences to Joy ,Marlon and all the family May Betty Rest In Peace safe in the arms of our Lord .We remember Betty with so much Love a very special sister in law always with a beautiful smile .❤️🙏 Read full message here.
Our Condolences to Joy, Marilon and Family, sorry for your loss. May Betty's soul rest in Peace 🙏 Read full message here.
Rest in peace Ma Betty we will always love and remember you. Read full message here.
Ma Betty rest in peace. Condolences to aunty Joy uncle Marlon my ma Jean and all the family. Love Braydon and Noleen Read full message here.
My dearest Aunty Betty ❤️the queen of Sudoku🥹may your beautiful soul rest in eternal peace 🤍🕊️My deepest condolences to the family 🙏 Gone but never forgotten. Sending love,hugs and kisses Jeverne & Liam Read full message here.
My seepest condolences to Joy, Marlon and family. May aunty Betty ,s soul.rest in peace God bless you all Read full message here.